Happily married to my best friend

Most marriages fail because of selfishness/arrogance. It is really simple. Make your husband feel like a million bucks, as if you are lucky to have him as a husband, as if he is worth more than you. Make your wife feel like a million bucks, as if you are lucky to have her as a wife, as if she is worth more than you. If you do this for each other, you will both feel happy guaranteed.

This "million buck" feeling should be reflected in:
- the way you talk to your spouse,
- the way you touch,
- kiss and hug your spouse,
- in the things that you do for your spouse.

When Satan creeps into your heart and whispers to you, I am better, I deserve better, I am unlucky to have an inferior spouse, that is when problems start. Just be happy and share your happiness with your spouse. If you both do this for each other your love will grow.

May Allah grant you tremendous happiness in this world and the next. Ameen!